Every so often I feel overwhelmed by unfinished projects and general clutter. I was raised by two “cleanies”…everything has a place, everything in its place. Every spring and fall we would wash walls, windows, rearrange furniture and wall hangings and get rid of stuff we no longer liked or needed.
I have a desire to live like that but there are not just 4 people living here! We have 8 children still at home!
How I manage is with a fall and spring cleaning…but not like when I grew up. No this is more of a if-it-doesn’t-have-a-place-get-rid-of-it-cleaning. The flat spaces: the buffet, bookshelves, tables, boxes, and drawers that are overflowing with things that just didn’t make it to a good spot (yes, even the junk papers hardly ever get into the garbage) I just swipe it into a box and then go through that box …”keep” “donate” “toss” mentality. FlyLady got me going on this with her 27-fling boogie.
Sometimes I end up with a box of toys that I am planning on donating, but it just doesn’t get dropped of to the thrift shop.
- KIDS THAT FIND TOYS THEY HAVEN’T SEEN IN MONTHS WILL PLAY FOR HOURS.
It is such a joy to watch them play contentedly. In their own little world. The creativity is flowing and they are happy…not bored.
I am very motivated to keep a couple boxes of forgotten toys tucked away for that ‘fun famine’. We don’t ever want boredom to take over!
- BOREDOM BREEDS NAUGHTINESS.
A bored child creates a naughty child…sad, but true sometimes.
- MOMS MAKE GREAT PLAYMATES.
My kids, especially my young boys, Blue 7 and Blue 8, sometimes forget how to play in a quiet, acceptable way (without breaking stuff) It is fun to build a few MegaBlock garages for them to park their cars and trucks into. Or pile up blocks as high as I can so they can have the pleasure of knocking them down.
- READING IS A FAVORITE PASTIME FOR MOST KIDS…AND IT HELPS THEM LEARN TO READ.
I read constantly to the 4 oldest…and I rarely read to the children now. So sad. Like neglect. Missing out on so many good evenings of reading, storing up memories together.
As I recall all that I have learned as a mom of many, I am reminded not only of the awesomeness of the responsibility, but of the great blessing that each child is.
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